Thursday, May 24, 2007

Happiness And Relationship

By: Eric Sheng ,

This article is about Happiness and Relationship.In my opinion, the sustaining of a relationship is largely dependent upon how happy we are with each other. All of us want to be happy and avoid unpleasantness. Happiness is the primary need in everyone of us. Likewise, a partner chose you because he or she thinks that you can provide him or her with happiness.According to observations, the breakdown of relationships has many common factors. These factors include lack of communication, physical abuse, extra-marital affairs, financial problems, alcoholism and general sexual incompatibility. In all these factors, happiness is not being fulfilled in some ways or another. The lack of fulfilment results in unpleasantness in the relationship which leads to the eventual breakdown.In my opinion, before we embark on any relationship, we must try to understand our potential partner. Not all think alike. And there are also much fundamental differences between the perception and expectation between men and women. Of course, we can never guarantee a perfect match. However, we can avoid a disastrous one if we are totally honest with ourselves and our judgement.

Also, I think having a light hearted attitude in relationships can defuse conflicts better. Many couples felt that, in the midst of heated arguments, something hilarious happening at the moment can dissipate anger and replace it with laughter. A mutual attitude of taking-it-easy is beneficial.Additionally, relationship is not all of what makes us happy or complete. We also derive happiness from what we like to do on our own. So, I think having a healthy dose of independence is good too.This are just my opinions and is not definitive. Thank you for reading.
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The author runs a website Be Friend Dating which has useful dating tips.

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